Exam time is upon us once
again, and for those of you who have been there before, you know that figuring
out the perfect study strategy is a tedious process of trial and error. But I’m
happy to announce that after YEARS of experimenting, I’ve finally found what
works best for me! An all-encompassing timetable that systematically breaks
down and organises not only all my
course material, but all aspects of my personal life as well. This way, nothing
goes unaccounted for and so all I have to do is… blindly follow it! Piece of
cake, right?
However, building this
larger-than-life timetable wasn’t easy, it took a lot of time, head scratching
and patience! It’s also important to remember that everyone processes
information differently, and so you need to figure out what works for your
personality and lifestyle. There’s never just one way to do something in life,
so what works for me might not work for you.
Which brings me to my
relationship with S… He needs his space
and time to study for his exams. I totally get it. On the one hand, I feel
liberated being able to trust that things between us will be the same once exams
are over. It’s not about how often I see him, but how strong our relationship
is. I’ve learnt my lesson, which is that a relationship is nothing without
trust. So I’d like to be the kind of girlfriend I always imagined I’d be:
understanding and frankly, chilled out. I think I’m doing pretty well, despite
what anyone else might say!
Just like study timetables,
it’s so clear to me that every couple creates their own unique dynamics and
rules. There isn’t just one way to behave in a relationship – that’s impossible
right? Ugh! A part of me just wants turn away from what everyone else is
saying, and listen to my gut. Because it tells me that I’m going to be just
fine… S cares about me, I care about him… and that’s enough for me to do what I feel is right for us.
‘Cause maybe the people who
are doubting and questioning other people’s relationships are insecure about
their own, or even themselves in some way? All I know for sure is what kind of
partner I’d like to be – trusting, loyal and honest.
So instead of judging or
commenting on other people’s choices, let’s strive to pave our own way! What do
you think?
Until next time!
Xoxo Fru Fru Shru
I like dicks too
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