My brother’s spirit to keep
pushing onwards and upwards has been such a bright inspiration to me these
days. Despite the (scary) setbacks he’s facing, he’s managed to stay determined
and focused on getting better every day. Here I am trying to figure out ways to
motivate him, but he’s the one encouraging me to push myself further!
A lot of times we end up in
situations we haven’t asked to be in. We find ourselves in tough situations and
need to dig deep to find the strength to face what life throws at us.
Yet… are all these difficult
situations always out of our control? Maybe not! I think this is what may be what’s
happening with my friend P and her new crush, a married man. Maybe her feelings
aren’t fully within her control, because you can’t choose who you fall for,
right? Even so, it’s still within your control whether you want to entertain
those feelings further. And if I’ve learned anything from almost two decades on
earth, if your crush is married – take two steps back, turn around and walk
away in the other direction.
‘Coz even the prettiest
things can hurt you. Just like a red rose – it looks beautiful on the outside,
but look more closely and you’ll see it’s covered with spikey thorns that can
hurt you. Similarly, your purest feelings towards someone who’s off limits can
be dangerous too. So to help you stay clear of the danger zone, this week I’ve complied a list of immediate red flags
every girl should look out for in a guy.
1. If he’s married or in a
relationship –red flag!
2. If all your friends and
family don’t think this person is good
or even right for you – red flag!
3. If you feel you have to
change who you are to be in a happy
and sustainable relationship with this person – red flag!
4. If he’s secretive or shifty
about his past – red flag!
5. If you’re experiencing any
sort of physical, emotional or mental abuse from this person – red flag!
I
hope this helped you guys out! Let me know in the comments if you’ve got any
more red flags to add to this list. Until next time!
Xoxo
Fru Fru Shru
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