Hai
Girls,
I
was just thinking the other day, that I might actually miss school. Wait, no, I
don’t actually miss school, but I
miss seeing my friends every day. I guess I took for granted that I would still
see them as often as I usually do, but now that we’re out of school and have
other things that keep us busy – work, family, life in general – we sometimes
don’t see much of each other at all.
P’s
got a new job and I’m really happy for her, but I’m also worried that she’s
working herself too hard, too fast. I know this job means a lot to her because
lately she’s been so unsure about every other aspect in her life… but I don’t
think if this new lifestyle of hers is sustainable. Long hours of physical work
with minimal rest – I really hope it doesn’t burn her out.
I’m
also curious as to why P claims she needs money so quickly. I mean, I’m sure
there’s a specific reason but I don’t feel right asking her. I don’t want her to think I’m invading her
privacy.
My
other good friend, M, has also been slightly distant. We used to hang out a lot
more before but nowadays he never seems to be around. I wonder how he’s doing,
what he’s feeling and what he’s thinking. However, just like P, perhaps there’s
a reason he hasn’t told me much about his life. I wonder what they both could
be hiding from me?
It’s
not a great feeling to know that your best friends don’t want to share certain
parts of their life with you. Maybe I’m exaggerating and nothing’s going on but
the truth is I miss them both. And if something really is going on in their
lives, I wish I could be doing more as their friend to show my support.
That’s
why this week, because I’ve been thinking about my friends, I’m going to share
a simple yet special little gift you can make for the important friends in your
life. All you need is a plain coffee mug (you can get one from almost anywhere
and they’re like super inexpensive) and some permanent markers of various
colours.
Now,
think about your favourite memory with this friend and conceptualise it on this
plain mug. It could be a funny quote, a drawing, a comic or even your favourite
dialogue from a movie! The point of this present is to show that you’re
thinking of them even if life gets busy and stressful. It’s all about making this
mug about YOUR beautiful and unique friendship.
So
what are you waiting for? Unleash the artist within you and be sure to Instagram
your creations and tag me @frufru.shru. That’s it for this week girls, until
next time! Mwah!
Xoxo
Fru Fru Shru
hi fru fru,I've been watching TANGLIN for some time and just found you really have blog in real life! That makes me feel much connected with you :) I will keep being your fan as I really love the moment you share with P and M which reminds me of my ever best friends. Wish you all the best.
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