Accepting
P’s decision was one of the hardest things I’ve had to do recently. But after
so many ups and downs in our relationship… I knew that this time around, the
only choice I had to move forwards was acceptance.
When
Ma told me what she got P, it was like the last piece of the puzzle for me.
That simple gift represented what I have learnt - the gift of blank acceptance.
In
her own way, Ma is giving P her blessing to write her own story, map out her
own journey, and make her own mistakes too! All the while, assuring P that
she’ll always be around when P needs her. Wow. Talk about a good gift, right?
And you know what? I don’t think there’s anything P needs more right now than
unconditional support… so why do I keep
fighting the obvious?
Looking
back, it’s been such a long struggle to come to terms with the fact that I
simply cannot control P’s decisions. It’s her life, her struggle, and our joys, right? I’ll still disagree
with her from time to time, but no matter what, I’ll always be here for her and
I hope she will be here for me too.
Until
next time,
Xoxo
Fru Fru Shru
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